Direct dating summit
Indirect, passive men who have no solid plan, no clear intentions and make dating feel exhausting instead of fun by making them constantly have to how he feels.April Masini, Relationship Expert and the voice behind the popular Ask April advice column, with me that there’s something seductive about a direct man.Sasha Daygame, direct dating coach, creator of The Direct Dating Summit and author of “The Direct Daygame Bible: How to Meet and Attract Beautiful Women in Everyday Situations” explains that being the ‘mysterious type’ results in nothing but awkward complications.Sasha states: “The mystery method was popularized by the book and encourages inauthenticy and awkward interactions” compared to his direct dating method which “encourages honesty, authenticity, and expressing yourself assertively.” 2.When a woman is salsa dancing, if her man is unsure and waivers she is then forced to step into a masculine, leading role even though she would prefer him to lead. If she can’t trust his movements, they step on one another’s toes.If he is direct and clear in his leadership, however, everyone wins.” The ambiguous type will always be indirect and will never be transparent.Passive men are a dime a dozen, and most women can’t stand passive men.
The reason for this has to do with a confident and direct man’s ability to really go after what he wants.Certified Divorce Coach Arianna Jeret is well aware what tends to cause friction in relationships, and explains how to avoid conflict and wasted time: “If a man is direct and open, he is much easier to trust.From a woman’s perspective, the fewer things to potentially misinterpret in the relationship due to indirectness, the better.” When someone seems hard to read, it’s often because they’re not all in and they’re avoiding being honest.She said, and I quote: “Men who are straightforward, open and honest in a relationship project a sexy confidence, and that’s an aphrodisiac that beats oysters any day.Lots of men think it’s money or girth that women are after, but in reality we’re after confidence, a sense of humor and success — all of which require a man to be direct, straightforward and open.
It’s hard to trust the ambiguous type and her confidence level goes down the longer she has to guess how he feels or deal with his indirectness.